COMPLIMENT COMPLEX :P

can positive compliments actually brings u down?
let say like this :
A : ye la kau memang pandai. boleh la dapat markah tinggi.
so how should u react to make sure that u're not offended
plus dun want to act snobbish.??
hmmm..
honestly, if i could run away from that conversation. i will.
sometime it strikes me.
is that a compliment or just a psychological attack?
to make sure that u'll feel great so that u become lazy then u ultimately fails.
if that is the case,
actually positive compliments are not all that great is it?
but then when u say how beautiful someone is.
are u actually really saying that?
or u just say to compliment for the sake of the person.
compliments can be something tricky and its hard to differentiate whether it is a compliment or rather i must say a 'perli' statement.
like this i supposed :
owh biasalah dia kan dah cantik
owh biasalah dia kan dah kaya.
like that. in front of ur face.

so what is compliment exactly?
the art of making all good things to self-destructed bombs.
or its just pure compliments.

i know i'm talking zero but yeah think about it.
does ur friend tell u what they really feel or they just say it for ur sake!
hehe