SINGLES DILEMMA~

i was talking to A last nite..

and something bothers me till i suddenly fall asleep thats for sure..

i was thinking..

why this sumone we want or like we cannot have..

but this sumone we dun want/not preferably our choice.. they can make you a fan page out of it.

i have this reaction sometimes.. but almost all the time.especially when i do the first move.then

we chat, we facebook message then when the question pops.. the reaction is basically negative..

but i have this quit a fan i would say.. this person wants to know me, to show me what love is.. not sex kinda thing. but i tend to say no just because i preferably dun like..yeah u know where u want just friends not more of it..

is it true that..

its doesnt matter who the person u love with..

but the person who loves u the most is the suitable person for u?

how about somebody who doesnt have any fans at all..

he/she ain't that lucky..

what he/she should do?

act of desperation??

committing love suicide??

if all is fair in love

why some people commit suicide if they were broken hearted?

if all is fair in love

why there is cheating and abusing?

if he/she is there for u..

why waste all the tears...

thinking about it.. makes me confuse.

by the way , if the act of making love is sacred.

why couples tend to have sex and then breakup..

then sex is not sacred anymore.

don't you think.

basically the point is : what should singles do? should they wait for someone to love him/her or should they join the vast mate-hunting..hmmm..